Why men write poems for women

Received this email from a buddy who has been reading my poetic exploits of late [Poem 1] [Poem 2]. Interesting observations to say the least. He wrote:

Lets face it, there are only 3 reasons why guys write poems for their gals:

1) they're fags (read Azahan)

2) they want to get into her pants

3) to make up after screwing up