Is there ever a right time to be married? The romantics out there will say, "When you've found love, that's the right time". Well, true and, sometimes, not true.
How are you EVER sure that the person you've chosen to marry is the right one? How are you EVER sure that 2, 5, 10, 20 years down the road he will change into a person that you simply can't love anymore? Perhaps, by waiting just another day, you will meet the person you're REALLY supposed to be with and not the person you're planning to marry. Perhaps, once you're already married, you'll meet another man and suddenly realize that he's THE ONE. Or worse still, AFTER you're married, you realize that a person you knew from before, but never considered for marriage, is really the one you should be with.
Ahh... so many disaster scenarios. But really, let's think positive. Marriage is a wonderful union. Just like everything else in this life, the decision to marry must be a responsible decision followed up by responsible action. Whatever the outcome, good or bad, it will therefore be ours to bear.
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