I can't remember the number of times a woman has asked me what does a man look for in a women, in physical terms; what does a man see when he looks at a woman? Usually i answer with a short blurb about "beauty being in the eyes of the beholder". But let's try to be marginally scientific about this, ok? I won't pretend the following list is comprehensive, and perhaps, different men will have different preferences. But i'll bet loads of money most men will agree.
The question: What are a woman's assets and how do men value them?
The answer:
# Boobs (or, "breasts" in polite conversation) - its a long standing myth that the perfect pair of breasts has a measurement of 34B. In reality, i reckon, most men are more attracted to breasts which are proportional to the rest of the female figure. Size doesn't matter too much - its how they look in relation with the rest of your body that does.
# Butt (or, "buttocks" in polite conversation) - again, size in this department is not necessaryly important for men, though some women spend a tremendous amount of time, money and energy to firm it up and to remove cellulite. As with breasts, the shape and size of a woman's ass is a matter of personal taste, but a form of proportion in relation to the rest of the body is preferred.
# Curves (that "hourglass" figure) - quite important, i reckon. A woman with nice curves e.g. 34-23-35 is very pleasing to the male eye.
# Face - this is the "beacon" of a woman's physical representation. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but when a man thinks a woman's face is beautiful, a lot can be forgotten.
# Eyes - beautiful eyes are those that look "bright" and "lively". My personal favourite female physical feature.
# Neck & collarbone - a woman's neck has been labeled by some as her "bridge"; slim, slender necks allow the head to sit high on a woman's body. Shouldn't be too long, though - otherwise the "ostrich" effect might follow.
# Legs - long, slender legs are a frequent attracter of male stares. Hard to describe the reason why or the feeling a man feels when he lays eyes upon a pair of beautiful legs. Its a popular consensus that hairy legs are a no-no.
# Ankles - an often overlooked body part, but beautiful ankles truly enhances a woman. Pay close attention to male ankles: most are bumpy and rough. A beautiful pair of ankles are the direct opposite.
# Hands - there is good reason why, in Islam, one of the few things a man may see of a woman are her hands. You can tell a lot about a woman by carefully examining her hands. Beautiful hands tend to have slender, non-stublike, fingers with soft, unmarked skin.
# Navel (pusat) - hard to get a glimpse of, but navels are huge turn-ons for many men. Use wisely.
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