Debra said to Raymond tonight, "My past made me what i am today."
Perhaps women are wiser than men.
I think its quite common for people to get hung up over their partner's previous relationships. Raymond was so distressed that the house was full of little gifts Debra's ex-boyriends had given her. He wanted her to throw all those gifts away. Why should he feel insecure? Its so silly. Debra loves him and married him and had children with him. And still he's jealous.
What Raymond needs to understand is that memories are important to all of us. Our memories, our experiences shape us -- if we are good people today, its partly due to because we had good memories yesterday.
No, i modify my statement. I think women are wiser than men.