A friend of mine is marrying a married man soon. Problem: she was promised by him that he wouldn't sleep with his first wife again until he slept with her first after the wedding. Recent events suggest that he won't keep that promise; he is going to have sex with his wife.
Its a tough spot: he made her a promise, but that promise goes against his responsibility to his first wife. She shouldn't be made to wait for sex by a promise he made to a woman who isn't his wife yet.
What do you think? Should he sleep with his wife, forsaking his promise to his new bride-to-be? Should he keep his promise? Should such a promise have been made in the first place?
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